Mother To Mother Doula Service
Gainesville, Virginia | (866) 421-2248

I've lived in the Northern Virginia area for the majority of my life.  I have more than 4 years of experience as a doula and received my certification through DONA.

I am a mom of 6 kids to which I have had difficult pregnancies.  All preterm births except for one born 15 minutes into the 37th week.  I have started my business, my mission!, to help moms & dads have the best birth experience possible.

Conception through birth is one of life's greatest miracles, and helping women have a memorable experience is important to me.

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Many people have questions regarding what are doula services, and the benefits they provide. Hopefully the information listed on this page will answer most of your questions. If not, please feel free to contact me directly.

One of the most frequently asked questions is regarding back-up doula services. Yes, I make arragements to provide professional labor doula back-ups if the need ever arises.


 

 

 


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Q: How is a doula different from a midwife?

A: Midwives and doulas often work together as a team, but both their training and focus is different. A midwife is a medically trained professional that provides pre-natal care as well as delivering the baby. During labor and delivery, a midwife will tend to the woman's medical needs while a doula can help support her physically and emotionally.  After delivery, a midwife will focus on the health of the baby, and the post-delivery care of the woman while a doula can help with bonding and initiating breastfeeding. It is not necessary to be seeing a midwife for your pre-natal care in order to have a doula.


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Q: Will a doula take the place of my husband or partner?

A: Absolutely not! A doula is not there to replace a woman's partner but rather to enhance his/her support. On the simplest level, a doula can be an extra pair of hands; for example, getting ice chips while the partner massages during a contraction. A doula knows various methods of physical comfort as well as being a reassuring presence about the normalcy of the birthing process. Additionally, a doula can provide unbiased information. Essentially, a doula is there to fill in any gaps that may exist and will be as involved as the mother and her partner desire.


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Q: I am not sure I want an un-medicated birth, can a doula still help me?

A: Of course! Having a doula does not mean you have to have an un-medicated (sometimes also called a "natural") birth.  Doulas provide comfort and encouragement during all types of births, including cesareans. Some women choose not to take pain medication until labor has progressed to a certain point, and a doula can help a woman stay comfortable until she is ready for the drugs. Epidurals are a very popular form of pain relief, and a doula can help a woman maximize the benefits of an epidural while minimizing the risks. At the same time, doulas know how to support a woman who chooses to have a completely un-medicated birth. A doula will work with you and respect your preference for pain medication.


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Q: Will the doula come to my home in labor?

A: It depends on alot of things-where you live, where you are in your labor and any medical concerns you may have.  But, we like to come to you where you need us when you need us. Situations like if you are not on the opposite side of town from the hospital (waiting for your doula and then both of you backtracking to the hospital could take a significant amount of time). If that is the case, your doula can meet you somewhere in the middle. We've met moms at malls or at the hospital without checking in and walked together while laboring!